i still love Paula Dean!!

Today was a big day for gay people. With that being said i could marry the man i love and receive all the benefits it would have, But to be honest i so don't every see me walking down the isle could be my childhood but marriage just is not ( or at least i don't think ) for me . But to be honest knowing i could makes me happy .

What happednd to customer service?

  This just maybe my age showing but i remember when if you went to a store/restaurant who ever was waiting on you took the time to ( get this ) wait on you! We went to work out today and decided to stop at our local "sub sandwich" place and it was kinda shocking. First the girl and i do mean girl , maybe 22, was so concerned that she had tied here " fucking shoe" so tight. 1st how do you tie your so tight it cuts off your blood flow and not know it prior to 5 Min's passing? Really how does that happen?? That alone should should tell you the MENSA like IQ of her. Then she asks if Steve and I are brothers ( we look nothing alike for those of you who don't know us). That then sparked a whole strange conversation about the other girl telling her story about being asked if she had a sister and so on...!! Its just amazing to me some one who spent 13 yrs in customer service that this passes for customer service .

Shower room stuff

Well I must say today is was the most straight up wrongness I have seen in the locker room. coming back from the therapy pool you have to pass through the shower room at the Y . So as i come up the stairs and turn the corner the is a man standing in the shower room ( in plain sight) with a "semi"! But i must further explain his arms were folded pelvis thrust out and quite proud i would guess of this member ( mind you i have not a clue what was so "exciting" or why he was so "proud" ) . Then as i am getting dressed i see him go from the hot sauna to the dry sauna back and forth a few times ( his "excitement" never wavered) . So i ask you ( really i do) Am I the only one who finds this very wrong and disturbing?

OM F'ing G

Okay in my last blog or so i was going on about how i felt slighted my dad and his wife did not call me. OMG I so wish they hadn't cause they did tonight and they offered an apology about falsifying they date of there marriage but nothing of a personal nature i so wish they hadn't offered out one at all . i have a list as long as my body of things they told me and did to me as a person growing up. The least of witch was the date of there marriage and now that i am typing this they never gave me a date this time either !!! OMG  !!! i ask myself why did i expect more or less from them? They only added insult to injury tonight.
 On a unrelated note today someone left there skid marked under pants on the floor at the Y ... gross!!